Twila Belk’s positive attitude encourages others to look to Jesus. In this Attitude UPGRADE, the author/speaker shares her approach to dealing with fears.
“Whatever we focus on becomes magnified in our minds,” Twila says. “If we concentrate on our 
fears, they overwhelm us.”
Fears come and go, and I (Dawn) likely have as many fears as you do. We can’t stop the thoughts of fear from entering our minds, but we don’t have to let them take up residence!
Twila continues …
- “How will I pay the bills?”
- “Where will I live?”
- “Who’s going to take care of me?”
- “How will I survive?”
- “What if it’s cancer?”
Sometimes we become so absorbed in the problems that produce these and similar questions, we can’t think about anything else. We dread the unknown.
During those times, a shift in focus is necessary. We need to fix our eyes—on God.
When we have complications seeing, we might fix our eyesight with a product called Artificial Tears.
When our spiritual vision is obscured, and we can’t imagine anything but trouble, the best remedy is T-E-A-R-S.
Let me explain what I mean.
T – TRUST. Trust is the opposite of fear.
Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to trust God with ALL our heart. We’re supposed to acknowledge Him in ALL our ways. If we do that, He promises to direct our paths—to take care of us. We’re not left to flounder on our own.
The better we know Him, the easier it is to trust Him.
E – ETERNAL-MINDEDNESS. In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18, we’re encouraged to fix our eyes not on what we see—the difficulties surrounding us—but on what we don’t see. The visible things are temporary and changing, but God and His promises are eternal.
If our hope is in Christ, we can endure the here and now through God’s bubble of grace, knowing that the best is yet to come.
A – ABIDE. Psalm 91:1 says, “He (she) who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.”
To me, that’s a picture of crawling up on the Father’s lap and resting in His warm embrace. There we express our intimate thoughts to Him, pour out our hearts, and share what’s bothering us. As we’re on his lap, we hear his heartbeat and realize that it’s beating for us. With every pulsation we’re reminded how special we are to Him, how big He is, and that He has everything under control.
In the arms of our loving Father is the safest and most comfortable place to be.
R – REMEMBER. We easily become forgetful when face-to-face with adversity. The things we know to be true about God go by the wayside.
That’s why we need to continually rehearse His goodness and faithfulness. When we remember what God has done for us (or others) in the past, we can trust Him for today and tomorrow.
S – SET. David says in Psalm 16:8, “I have set the Lord always before me. Because He is at my right hand, I won’t be shaken.”
Here’s how we can set the Lord always before us:
- Meditate on Him throughout the day.
- Carry on a running conversation with Him.
- Memorize His promises and verses that speak of His greatness and repeat them often.
- Post scriptural truths in much-seen places.
- Sing praises.
I’ve learned that my circumstances don’t change who God is; they show me who God is.
When I apply T-E-A-R-S to my tribulations, I see clearly that God’s presence, power, and provision are all I need. I pray you’ll discover that as well.
Do you have a nagging fear? How might you apply the T-E-A-R-S concept to that fear?
Twila Belk—aka The Gotta Tell Somebody Gal—is a writer and speaker who 
loves braggin’ on God. She’s written or co-written five books, contributed to several others, and recently started work on a new project, Raindrops from Heaven, that will release early next year. To learn more about Twila, including her newest title, I Believe in Heaven: Real Stories from the Bible, History and Today, visit her website, www.gottatellsomebody.com.