Melissa Mashburn's insights into Ministry and Leadership are refreshing and practical, as is evident in this UPGRADE.
“I’m late, I’m late, for a very important date,” Melissa says.
Does that sound familiar? I (Dawn) always used to feel pressed for time and often—to my shame—cut out ministry opportunities. Thankfully, the Lord showed me some of the wisdom Melissa talks about today!
She continues . . .
Do you remember the rabbit from Alice in Wonderland? You know the one, he was always running around in a flurry of activity. I can remember being put off that this silly rabbit who was always dressed up and looking so sporty. Within a blink the rabbit was off to wherever else he needed to be at that moment. He left and along with him a rush of anxiety passing right on by as well.
In the busyness of ministry, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a vicious cycle of running.
Hoping, dreaming and praying to be purposeful and effective in our ministries, we need to stop and remember we can’t do everything for everyone, but we can do something for one.
Everything was a whirlwind when rabbit was around, and yet, if we are honest for a moment, there are probably a few of us who are just like rabbit. Oh, we don’t mean to, of course, but the demands of ministry and family life can keep us bustling about our days just like that rabbit.
You look at the calendar and see it is overcrowded. Then you get a call from a woman who needs someone to talk to about a crisis in her life. The next “free” minute on your calendar is two weeks away and you're left in that space of “what am I supposed to do now, Lord?”
Oh, my friend, how I can relate to this. I have been in this very spot many times in my fifteen years of ministry, and I want to share a few things I’ve learned along the way.
Here are three things to help you to minister when there’s “no time” for ministry:
1. Always first, go to God in prayer and ask for His help.
"Hear my prayer, O Lord; give ear to my pleas for mercy! In your faithfulness answer me, in your righteousness!" (Psalm 143:1, ESV)
There is no way for us to be able to make sense of our already crazy schedules on our own. By seeking His guidance and mercy from the get go, we release ourselves from trying to “fix it.”
2. Ask God specifically what the next step is for you.
"The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives" (Psalm 37:23, NLT).
When frazzled by the demands of ministry, I have to stop and ask Him very directly and clearly, "What is the next step?"
What’s the most important thing God wants me to do—not what I like to do or what I’m good at, but what has He specifically planned for me.
3. Do for one what you wish you could do for all.
"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me" (Matthew 25:35-40, ESV).
Listen, ministry is not a nine to five job. We both know that. It can be demanding and overwhelming, but it can also be incredibly simple at times.
Do for one what you wish you could do for all is simply this . . . be fully present where you are at that very moment.
If you are:
- at the grocery store, be a friendly face to the cashier.
- in the lobby at your church and you see a new face, go up and introduce yourself—welcome them.
- in the carline and someone cuts you off, let it go and let them get in front of you.
- get an email from someone who is hurting, stop and pray for them right that moment.
Ministry doesn’t have to happen the way we always think it should. Sometimes we just have to be prepared to slow down the crazy rabbit in our lives and let God show us what’s next.
What can you do today to minister to others even though there’s not always time for ministry?
Melissa Mashburn passionately pursues God daily, taking her ordinary life and placing it as her offering to Him. She is an author, speaker, mom, pastor’s wife, and trained communicator through CLASSeminars, with extensive background in Womens, Kids and Volunteer Ministry. Her passion is helping women “keep it real” in their lives and ministries. Melissa is married to her best friend, Matt (22 years) and they have two adult sons, Nick & Bailey. She loves to relax with a great book and giant cup of coffee. You can find her at Melissa Mashburn: Real Women. Real Life. Real Faith.