In my previous UPGRADE post, I (Dawn) encouraging people to remember both breadth and depth in life, and we focused on Breadth.
Once we get the Big Picture--a broader perspective and biblical priorities, we're ready to tackle the details.
CONCEPT #2:
GO for DEPTH!
What does focusing on details include?
1. Appropriate Strategies
- We need to block off some time alone with God in order to think clearly with Him and clarify where we're heading. Spiritual roadmaps help us arrive where we plan to go.
- Envision the goal. For the Christian, a worthy, biblical goal is to become like Jesus (Romans 8:29; 1 John 2:6). So, what is He like? What would He choose? How would He operate? (1 Corinthians 11:1; Ephesians 2:10)
- We might want to prepare ahead of time so we're not tempted or distracted by things that disrail us from our goals. Simply eliminating some options (Romans 13:14) can make the path to success clearer.
- Identify some actionable steps to take right away. Brainstorming with others will help generate creative ideas to move forward. Spiritual success comes step by step, choice by choice.
2. Accountability Stimulation
We have to find what motivates us to stay on target.
- It might be as simple as a weekly check-in or a chart to fill in.
- Or it might be a progress report or an evaluation conducted by someone in charge.
- For others, it's a promised reward!
3. Advocating Supporter
- We can all use a trustworthy "buddy" to bounce our ideas back and forth — hopefully a wise one who can help us recognize foolish thinking.
- We all need people who will encourage us, advise us, even fight for our success (1 Thessalonians 5:11; Hebrews 10:24).
- In other words, we need some positive "cheerleaders" in our life.
For example, in the case of my dietary program:
- I have a number of strategies—some supplied by the nutritionist and some created on my own—to help me "stick with the program." I cleaned all the tempting food out of my cabinets and refrigerator and made choosing wisely a simple process.
- For accountability, I have regular meetings with my nutritionist and a worksheet sheet I've filled in that shows the foods I've eaten and the exercise I've done during the week.
- My nutritionist is a wonderful supporter of my efforts, and I have several encouraging "cheerleaders" in my family as well.
It's a process that will work for any Big Picture goals, whether it's tackling a bad habit or pushing toward a personal dream or ministry project.
The process is:
Strategize well - Stay accountable - Seek support!
As a Christ-follower, my best strategies come from God's Word and I am ultimately accountable to Him (Romans 14:12; 2 Corinthians 5:10). Even if no one on earth understands my struggle and comes alongside to cheer me on, I know the Lord is with me, desires my spiritual success and blesses me as I honor Him.
Sometimes we'll see results in the here and now. But when we don't see immediate results or those we seek, we must go back to the Big Picture where we know there will be lasting victories, fruitfulness and reward.
I struggle with a "besetting sin," as do all of us. Although I get small victories here and there and I see clear evidence that the Lord is changing my heart and behavior, I still mess up. I'm still human. I'm still a sinner.
But someday the final victory will come. God's Word tells me so! (1 Corinthians 15:57; Philippians 3:21a)
God the Father is making me like His Son. Having rescued me from sin's power, He is enabling me now to choose not to practice sin, and someday I will be completely transformed and free from even the presence of sin.
So if you are struggling today with your own "I still mess up" problem, consider these two questions:
Do you have the big picture clearly in mind? How can you tweak your strategies, design accountability that will motivate you, or find more support?
Dawn Wilson, founder and President of Heart Choices Today, is the creator of three blogs: Heart 
Choices Today, LOL with God (with Pam Farrel), and Upgrade with Dawn. She is on the board of Network of Evangelical Women in Ministry (NEWIM) and is a contracted researcher for Revive Our Hearts. She and her husband Bob have two grown, married sons, three granddaughters and a rascally maltipoo, Roscoe.