Marcia Ramsland is one of the most organized women I know. But those organization skills aren't just for grown-ups. In this Organization UPGRADE, Marcia explains how we can teach our children good habits too.
Marcia asks, "Did your mother ever tell you 'Go Clean Your Room'? If your Mom was like mine, probably 'Yes.'"
Oh, Marcia. Where were you when I (Dawn) needed you years ago with my little boys? I never practiced organization skills as a young mom myself, so it was almost impossible to teach my youngsters.
Marcia continues . . .
Today ia good time to take Mom up on it . . . no matter what your age is!
And after you clean up your own room, it's a good idea to organize your child or grandchild's room with them.
You see, training children is 50% by example and 50% by teaching them how to do everyday chores so they become habits leading to life success.
Your daily training leads to the goal in Proverbs 31:28: “Her children arise and call her blessed.” That comes by consistent modeling and patient teaching as they grow up in the only world they can can control – their room.
5 Steps to Clean Any Room —
For Yourself and Your Child
Practice these five steps consistently and eventually it will become a consistent habit. You always get to start over on the weekend with children if they have a particularly busy week.
Step 1: Make the bed first.
Since this is the largest visible surface, the room is now 60-70% clean! Choose a comforter that is easy to pull up without showing wrinkles.
Step 2: Put everything away on the floor.
Start at the doorway and work toward the bed and nightstand until everything is put away.
Step 3: Clean up everything by three categories:
- Clothes – Put dirty clothes in a hamper or clothes bag in the closet. A trek to a bathroom hamper is too distracting to stay on task.
- Papers – Start by cleaning up the nightstand and dresser. Arrange books neatly on a bookshelf and organize papers into binders and folders.
- Collections and Toys: Display collections or toys on shelves, take a picture before changing it to make room for their next interest, and declutter often.
Step 4: Focus on one extra cleaning area.
Organize the desktop, dresser, nightstand, or closet on a weekend or vacation day. The front 2/3 of every surface should be clear.
Step 5: Empty the wastebasket often.
Keep a medium size one near their desk and have the child empty it weekly.
Final Steps:
See their room as they do by laying down on their bed and looking around. Is it a pleasant place including their personality and interests, or does it reflect neglect and disorganization that you can improve?
Put up inspiring pictures of your child doing a favorite activity, and add a recent family picture so your child will always know they are special and belong in the family.
Then walk down the hallway to your room and look at what your child sees you model. A child will live like you do, so make your bed, organize your dressers, and put away laundry and other clutter before you start on their room.
A wise woman does build her home — starting with her own bedroom. (Proverbs 14:1)
Now you never have to tell your child, “Go clean your room.” Instead give your child one of the five steps above to do before their favorite TV show or computer game and it will get done.
What a great way to help your child succeed in life by having an inspiring, clean room as their “home base.”
Which of the three points under Step 3 is the biggest clutter area in your child's room? In your room? What can you do right now to get that clutter under control?
Marcia Ramsland is the leading Online Organizing Coach for Business and Life Success. A former 
teacher and parent herself, she is the author of the booklet and online course “Ages and Stages of Getting Children Organized.” She was intereviewed on Martha Stewart radio for this topic and believes any family can get more organized to create harmony at home. Details at www.organizingpro.com/agesandstages.