Debbie W. Wilson is not only an exceptional Bible teacher, she is a life coach who applies scripture in practical ways. In this Prayer UPGRADE, she addresses a topic that sometimes causes Christians to question the Lord.
Debbie asks, "Have unanswered prayers ever shaken your ability to trust God?"
I (Dawn) know I have had many unanswered prayers. I wondered, "Isn't my faith strong enough?" My focus was all wrong, regardless.
Years ago, a movement named Promise Keepers called men to faithfulness. But this article is about the faithfulness of God. Debbie is calling people to the Faithful Promise Keeper.
Debbie continues . . .
My friend and I prayed for her teenaged sons who were rebelling against her faith and values. Nothing she did seemed to reach them.
One day while reading the Bible she came across a Bible passage that resonated with her.
"This is what the Lord says: ‘Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded,’ declares the Lord.
‘They will return from the land of the enemy. So there is hope for your descendants,’ declares the Lord. ‘Your children will return to their own land’” (Jer. 31:16-17 NIV).
My friend believed this was God’s promise to her.
She repeated “they will return” to herself when their behavior worsened. This word from God boosted her faith whenever she was tempted to worry.
Abraham and Sarah, an Old Testament couple, also found hope in a promise from God. This couple tried for decades to have a child with no success. Sarah was infertile.
Imagine their surprise when God approached Abraham when he was pushing 100 years to say the time had come. Sarah would give birth to a son next year.
“As for Sarai your wife, you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah. I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be the mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her” (Gen. 17:15-16 NIV).
Sarah was at least 89. If she couldn’t conceive during the normal childbearing years, how could she hope to conceive a child now?
When their circumstances contradicted God’s words, they focused on the promise.
Their placed their hope in His ability not in their circumstances.
“Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed… Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as dead—since he was about a hundred years old—and that Sarah’s womb was also dead. Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised” (Rom. 4:18-21 NIV).
Abraham didn’t live in denial.
Neither was he a Pollyanna.
He considered his “good as dead” body and Sarah’s dead womb and laughed. God sure had a sense of humor to bring a son from them—now!
At age 100 Abraham held his infant son in his arms. At age 90 Sarah sang lullabies as she nursed her newborn.
God ALWAYS keeps His promises!
God fulfilled His promise to my friend too. Today, both of her children walk with the Lord and are raising their children in the Lord.
How do we trust God when our prayers seem to fall on deaf ears?
- Ask God for His will and perspective and then expect to receive a word from Him. It may come from your regular Bible reading, a sermon, or what the Holy Spirit brings to mind.
- Focus on His promise—not on what you see or don’t see. Memorize it and say it out loud.
- Trust God’s timing. Some of God’s promises—like Abraham being the father of many nations—are bigger than our lifetime.
“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see” (Heb. 11:1 NIV).
God always keeps His promises.
Has He given you a promise, but you can’t see anyway it will be fulfilled? Trust Him. He is the Promise Keeper.
Debbie W. Wilson—drawing from her walk with Christ and decades as a Christian counselor, life coach, and Bible teacher—helps women give themselves a break so 
they can enjoy grace-filled lives. Based on Hebrews 11, her most recent book, Little Faith, Big God, shows people how to live strong and finish well. Debbie enjoys a good mystery, dark chocolate, and the antics of her two standard poodles. Refresh your faith with free resources at debbieWwilson.com.