Some people, like Debbie W. Wilson, continually draw out fresh applications from old truths. In this UPLIFT Encouragement, using the story of Lazarus, Debbie reminds us that our Savior will never forget us—even if we feel like He has sometimes.
And especially when He delays to come to our aid. 
"My standard poodles’ big brown eyes melted my resolve," Debbie says. “'Ok. You can go with me.'”
I (Dawn) totally understand. My dog gets puppy-dog eyes—what else would I call them?—whenever I head for the door. "Pleeeeeeease don't leave me," he seems to say.
How can I say no?
Debbie continues . . .
Max’s fluffy tail thumped excitedly. His sister pranced with anticipation. And I smiled.
I hate to disappoint pooches and people. Especially, my pooches and my people.
That’s why Jesus’ actions in John 11 astound me.
“Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days” (John 11:5-6 NIV).
Without divine intervention, Lazarus would die.
Jesus had the power to heal.
Lazarus’ sisters sent an urgent message to Jesus,
“Lord, the one you love is sick” (John 11:3 emphasis added).
As a close friend of this family, surely, Jesus would rush to the rescue. He would not disappoint those He loved.
But Jesus waited.
Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So…He waited???
That doesn’t compute.
Jesus finally arrived—after Lazarus had been in the tomb four days. 
Jewish tradition held that the spirit left the body within four days.
Lazarus was gone.
Confusion complicated Martha and Mary’s grief.
- “Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died” (vs. 21).
- Mary fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died” (vs. 32)
- Even their friends were confused, “But some of them said, ‘Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?’” (vs. 37).
And they were right. If Jesus had been there Lazarus wouldn’t have died. Jesus said so (John 11:14-15).
For me, being misunderstood ranks up there with not disappointing someone I love. Jesus wasn’t calloused to their feelings (see John 11:33-38). But He was willing to be misunderstood to bring about a greater good.
He allowed Lazarus to feel forsaken on his deathbed, Mary and Martha to feel forgotten in their grief, and the villagers to question His love for His friends.
Why?
Because the eternal benefit outweighed the temporary discomfort.
He wanted for them SOMETHING BETTER than relief.
He wanted them to gain unshakable faith.
No one doubted Jesus could heal. But no one had ever raised someone who’d been dead four days.
Has Jesus’ timing ever disappointed you? What answer are you still waiting for?What “no” pains and confuses you?
Take heart from Jesus’ delay.
Listen to WHY He waited.
- “It is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it” (John 11:4 NIV)
- “Lazarus is dead, and for your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him” (John 11:14-15 NIV).
- “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die” (John 11:25 NIV).
- “‘Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?’…‘Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me’” (John 11:40-42 NIV).
- “Therefore many of the Jews … believed in him” (John 11:45 NIV).
When it looks like Jesus has forgotten you, when He seems to ignore your needs, draw hope from this story.
Stretching our faith is more important than our comfort. It’s how we come to know God is bigger and better than we can imagine.
Let’s allow Jesus to smash the boxes we’ve confined Him to and not lose heart when He delays.
He hasn’t forgotten you.
"Dear Father, Your will and Your ways are always better than mine. Feel free to tell me 'no' when You have a better plan."
When has a bitter “no” turned into a better “yes” for you?
Debbie W. Wilson, Bible teacher and former biblical counselor, combines insight and encouragement to 
inspire people to trust Christ with their lives. Her books include Little Faith, Big 
God, Little Women, Big God, and Give Yourself a Break. She and her husband Larry founded Lighthouse Ministries, a nonprofit biblical counseling and Bible study ministry. Debbie enjoys dark chocolate, a good mystery, and the antics of her two standard poodles. Find free resources and connect with Debbie at RefreshingFaith.com.
Graphic adapted, courtesy of Mediamodifier at Pixabay.
Painting of "The Raising of Lazarus" by Rembrandt, on Wikipedia. Part of the Google Art Project—Harmensz VanRijn.